So…Principle number one that Sherry Argov explains in her book is this: “Anything a person Chases in life runs away”
Why is this important? Why does it matter?
Did you look at the title of this post?
Men (and women for that matter) only like to be chased for a little while. I mean…running gets tiring and honestly sometimes you just want to be alone and not suffocated.
One mistake that women (and men) make sometimes is to chase a wee bit (awe helll…a LOT ) too much.
If a dude is ok with you continually gawking over him and you feel that you are working too hard…YOU ARE! Women overcompensate who they are WAAAAYYY too much to get Ryan Goslings….and Ryan Goslings sometimes do a little too much to get that girl.
STOP IT! STOP IT! STOP IT! Stop sitting around asking “What did I do wrong?” Nothing! Sometimes relationship just aren’t meant to be and if you are chasing around your hot sexy college ex boyfriend, you’re insane.
I know he was hot, but it’s not hot to be desperate and desperation will make you do strange things. Why are you so hung up and desperate anyways?
I can guarantee you it’s not because there is nothing wrong with you. If you are finding that you are spending time in your life to chase down your dream man, you are definitely barking up the wrong tree.
NOTHING is more pathetic than desperation and it’s very unattractive. You can put on a red lace thong and wear nothing on your nipples and chase him all you want. He will stop for a moment (if he’s a man) and pound that shit and then run.
It’s the truth…so get over it.
You are a very easy sex machine, booty call and pound that shit doormat if you will do anything to just touch that man.
IF that’s your thing…then go ahead…chase a way. But know this…at the end of the day when you are all alone and wondering why you don’t have a solid relationship…..it’s because you let your vagina be touched for any reason. Nobody wants a used treat. If you’re willing to open your legs for that guy that easy…how many times have you let it happen before?
If you want a quality relationship, treat your love hole with respect and get your mind set straight first.
How do you do that?