A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that man doesn’t feel he has a 100 percent hold on her.
Sitting around and just “being there” for you man is probably one of the most annoying things I see in relationships.
A REAL woman would never sit twiddling her thumbs and pretending to really love watching sports (I’m not saying women don’t love football…but I know a large majority who would rather be shopping or doing something fun with their friends than yelling at a bunch of stinky men run with a ball).
So what does the strong woman do? She talks! She interrupts. She DEMANDS attention. She poses a mental challenge to her man and he is stimulated by that.
Women who are predictable door mats are not challenging and not kept for long.
You don’t have to be an argumentative person to be mentally challenging….you just have to be yourself. And yourself doesn’t like sitting around while your man plays poker or strums his guitar…then get your ass up and do what you want. You don’t have to justify!
If your man’s feeling are hurt…then he needs to stop being a little bitch and read another book called, “Why Woman Don’t Like Man Bitches” (not written to my knowledge but maybe it should be.
Here’s an example of some serious desperation and a few gazillion notches down in the mental challenge category: A man states he loves blondes. You have brown hair. After hearing he likes blondes, you go and dye your hair blonde and THEN you order his favorite meal and pretend to love it (Hawaiian PIzza but you love Meat Lovers) and the message he gets? HE OWNS YOU. All he has to do is mention what he wants and BAM it’s done.
You’re a robot.
Robots are entertaining initially but new technology comes along and robots are forgotten.
Stop being a robot. Be more challenging. Don’t let him control you. YOU control you and he will always be interested in what the heck you’re going to do next because You are AMAZING, Intriguing and a really good mental challenge.
There is nothing sexier than mental stimulation. Now …get out there and be a stimulator!